One of the major issues I see around is we are all trying to be ,act and behave like someone else. We are losing our own identity to get an approval from others because of fear of rejection. We wear armors to shield our true nature, we are living two lives one for the world and one within the house.
So most of the people are super hit in external circles but super failures at home in their day to day roles as they cannot survive with that projected image 24/7. The formula for success is JUST BE YOURSELF and you will be able to attract the people who love you for who you are.
The Universe has made each one of us unique and that is the reason no two people are exactly the same in all aspects. If you understand this simple thing then just embrace yourself, shed of that armor and be you. Let your inner light shine bright.