As I share my posts with each one of you , the mystery of the universe unfolds and believe me it is just fantastic the revelations of that was always there is just an introduction to the inner knowing. The knowledge just pours in from places that were always around but I never thought them to exist. It is actually fun expecting magic to happen everyday and there it happens. Wish you all so much love for being a part of it.

So here is a revelation on our THOUGHTS it is not a big write up but it was fun as it was getting clear while I was writing it…

Everything in the universe is vibrating….so actually we are looking at different vibrational levels  (people, objects, colors) …The fastest vibratory motion in the world is a thought.. nothing gets formed or destroyed so everything actually is in transition..in 7 yrs each and every cell of our body is destroyed so we are under transformation constantly now you see an opportunity in getting over your health issues..there is nothing as forever ..now lets explain about RELATIONSHIPS….all relationships we are in right now , are just thoughts …your wife, your children your girlfriend….just close your eyes and how do you feel about them is just your thoughts ???..whatever has happened to u until this moment in your entire life is…… just THOUGHTS..we experience everyone through our mind in our thoughts…the beauty of it is that the thought is YOURS…the moment you stop being judgmental and be yourself and just be LOVE feel LOVE and COMPASSION you can transcend to be any miracle you want. The pureness of your thought can control matter at any time you want to….. YOUR THOUGHTS are responsible for your life condition so each one of us can make a masterpiece of our lives isn’t it simple and wonderful. You are not a victim of your external life circumstances instead you are a creator a powerful co creator your partner being the source, god or divine.

YOU ARE WHAT YOU ARE BECAUSE OF YOUR THOUGHTS – circumstances do not make you they just reveal you

This is an interesting one most of the time during counselling sessions I have observed people complaining that the world does not treat them well. This is mostly about office colleagues, bosses and close relationships, husband or in laws 😛
The major issues people face is about others not recognizing efforts or not being given the due even after persistent efforts and hard work. The result is a super dip in confidence, a feeling of revenge or depression/anxiety and a whole bunch of lower emotions surface.
This further leads to worse situation where we tend to attract more of such situations and then we really do not know what is wrong with ourselves or may be others. Whatever is happening in your life YOU are attracting it , it is a simple statement but very profound. Whether it is your job, your relationship, your family and friends all these people are a physical manifestation of your thoughts.
So do not blame them for being in your life if you were not a vibrational match to them you would have never been together as only like vibrations can co exist. Now if you have to transform any such situation at work or home you just need to change the way you think about them. So if your boss does not recognize your efforts start blessing him and also project thoughts that you want him to reflect for you. Try the same on any relationship you want to fix up.
Blessing is a wonderful way of transforming any person or situation, but it should be heartfelt and continue it for 2-3 weeks. If you reflect love, appreciation, kindness, generosity and gratitude towards others you will receive it generously from source (god/universe) in different forms.
Likewise if you are reflecting arrogance, hatred, jealousy and any other negative emotion be prepared to receive it in abundance as well 🙂 .

The age old proverbs “What you sow you reap” applies in day to day actions, words and thought projections.
So just try this small technique and take charge of your happiness TODAY.
Lots of love $argam ❤

 CONCRETE JUNGLE Wolves in Suits and Hyenas in Dress???? 

This is how GOD would be experiencing while observing us from above. God created man with utmost care and blessed us with speech, intellect and wisdom. He must have been proud initially on his creation but alas what are we turning to be..??

We are all born to be happy but the definition of being happy is now grossly distorted. Man is seeking pleasure through Addictions, Violence, Lying, Distrust and materialistic indulgence at the cost of family, health and relationships. What is the outcome? Very weak value system, blind competition no time to use discernment, blindly copying the west and transient pleasures.

The best excuse you hear from children and even grown ups is everyone is doing it. I am not doing wrong there are even worse things around  

We associate a lot of attributes with animals..snake will bite, monkey will imitate..fish will swim..birds will fly…but do we have any attributes at all associated with human beings that will apply across this species?? TRUST, HONESTY,COMMITMENT,CARE Kosher speech….?? 

We speak about mathematics, science music arts in college but today we need classes for character building /meditations for kids so that they can bloom to be what god intended human beings to be… honest, compassionate, righteous and loving individuals practicing kosher speech.

Lots of love to all of you 

Are YOU SELFISH??….oh yes I am and simply loving it  

Words like self love ,self centered and selfish draw out such a negative picture of any person. Since childhood we have been inspired to be self less in love , in relationships to show our care and concern for others at the cost of self…but just wait and think for a moment can you keep people happy if you are not happy? 
I know many of you will say yes ..but truly introspect and think..it is not possible in the true sense.

Practicing self love, self compassion and self satisfaction is the biggest way to get in alignment with the source. Unless you are happy you can’t keep others happy. Happiness is what we are living for right? You want more and more and more of love, money, job, food, clothing, salary,…….for what???? Happiness!!

Expressing love for self is the best way to align with source as you are a part of the source and so is everyone else. Every time you are happy/joyous/blissful you are more aligned with source..ever felt how appreciating someone from heart can make you have goosebumps why because it feels good..why helping someone feels good?..why a hug feels awesome? why a comedy movie is fun to watch together? All this is nothing to do with others it is adding to your happiness  

Similarly by practicing criticism, anger, grudges addictions (smoking/drinking/drugs) hurting others you are actually moving away from your own happiness and you get de-aligned with source. 

When you understand that life is all about YOU the meaning of life will change. If each one of us takes the ownership of our own happiness who will be sad?? The world will be full of happy selfish people 

Also when you understand how important your happiness is for yourself you will be able to respect the importance of other’s happiness for their own goals, desires and life.

Love Yourself as YOU are part of that Flawless Source.

EMOTIONS or ENERGY in MOTION

The emotions are a by product of our” Thoughts” and this energy in motion or our emotions impact our vibrational state. The place of creation of this energy in motion is also the place where the energy-vibration is released.

Your thoughts are responsible for creating the circumstances that You are currently in. Your emotional state blocks your focus by attracting similar vibration instances in focus.Does this sound confusing okay then let me explain:

There are two main emotions that determine our reality: fear-based emotions and love-based emotions. The fear based emotions in effect brings down your vibrations and you attract more of low vibrations and you flood your life with it blaming every other thing on the universe for it.

So if you are angry or low ,then you will witness every thing going wrong/not so good in a day for example: your car may breakdown, your driver can be late, your wife can be extremely irritable or your maid will not turn up, you will get stuck in traffic…these are all low vibration situations which you attract being a perfect match to these 

If you are in a love based emotion state that is the higher vibration state you will be a perfect match to the emotions as love, joy, faith, trust, inner strength, confidence… for example you see all happy faces around,work becomes interesting, everything goes perfectly smooth and you feel a sense of joy. This is because all these situations are a perfect match to the love based high vibrations you are experiencing.

So try to focus on things/situations/events that create love based emotions that will keep you in a state of higher vibrations.

If you wish your life to be different in the future it is necessary for you to change your emotions which in turn change your thinking in the present. By doing so you change the direction of your life!

Share things that make others happy, exchange compliments,help strangers,pursue your passions and enjoy life. All these gestures raise your vibrations   Live in Light Sargam
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Fear-based emotions: fear, anger, stress, hate, pride, greed, blame, bitterness, hurt, judgment, misery, sadness, hopelessness, unhappiness, insecurity, lack of faith, lack of self-love, self-destruction, jealousy, competitiveness, control, frustration, selfishness, closeness, guilt, shame, doubt,s uncertainty, negativity and the list is long..

Love-based emotions: love, joy, faith, trust, inner strength, confidence, belief,happiness, caring, sharing, forgiveness, openness, passion, freedom, harmony, honesty, beauty, compassion, self-love, self-appreciation, respect, acceptance, peace, balance between giving and receiving, understanding, positivity and again the list is long

How many of you just resist a bad day , the sorrowful feeling, the heavy heart and try your best to mask it by saying I am fine and are un successful in trying to feel the same? Most of us right? You try to focus on all the good things in life but still end up feeling burned out….right?? But do you know that even the highly evolved people had bad days/suffering/sorrows…Buddha had a bad day..Mohammad had sufferings..Lord Ram had sorrows too..as human beings we will always experience the full range of emotions from pain to joy..it is just that a negative emotion is a red flag that something needs to be learned or paid attention to.

The resistance to negative emotions is actually like driving the life on a flat tyre which you would never do in your practical life but you do it everyday in your emotional life.So how long can you drive on a flat tyre? Then ultimately you break down.

You cannot reach your destination without accepting the point where you are NOW. So if you are in pain today accept and welcome it.Pain and negative emotions educate us about our own inner weaknesses and help our souls to evolve. Bad days/pain /sufferings are instruments for the soul to perfect it.

No Buddha would have been a Buddha had there been no Mara..No Ram would be Ram had there been no Ravan. So befriend people who are the cause of the pain n negative emotions in life they are your biggest teachers..learn the life lesson and then just let them go..

Lots of love to all of you ♥ – Sargam ♥

Last year I went to Kingdom of Dreams KOD (Cultural fair) with family not aware that today I will be penning down this write-up based on a small experience… well I must say everything happens for a reason

KOD is a nice place and enjoyable as a first time experience for sure. I happen to see a pottery making stall with lots of kids lining up, there even I lined up waiting for my turn. It was my first experience with the wet clay and the moving wheel. I was super excited the kind of person I am all these small things just fascinate me. As I started working on the set up, the clay was just out of control as the wheel was continuously moving and a slight movement of my hand changed its shape. Gradually I realized it was not the clay or the wheel that was making my clay pot it was my fingers. As it was wet clay I could at any time correct or change the shape I wanted to make so there was no fear. I smiled and became friendly with it and whoa there I had my first masterpiece.

Life is just like the wet clay when we realize it is not our destiny or the people around us who make our life, but it is we ourselves. During difficult times we do feel as a victim to the external conditions but every situation is a blessing a reality that we have manifested. Once we accept the reality that life doesn’t happen to us by chance or by luck and start taking ownership by being conscious and aware of our thoughts and actions, life becomes Your creation, Your “Masterpiece”.